Don’t make someone the sole and ultimate source of your happiness. Don’t let your life revolve around them. It’s okay to be inspired or be in love with someone but I think, it’s not smart to let them be the definition of your happiness.
It is true that special someone may be the reason for all your happiness but they could also be the reason for your sudden sadness. Say that person hurt you (intentionally or unintentionally) one moment your happy then suddenly you’re doomed . What’s worst is what if that person broke your heart, it would surely cause your world to break down. You’d surely have difficulty moving on or seeing the brighter side of life.
Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not being pessimistic towards life or love. It’s okay if you someone makes you happy but what I’m trying to say is that maybe it would be better if you don’t rely your happiness to someone. Life has may things to offer us. The world is big and interesting, the horizon is limitless and there are lot of things that can be the reason for your happiness. It could be your family and friends, the simple things around you, your hobbies and passion, the act of helping others etc. There’s a lot to be mention. It is in the way how you see life that will give you your own definition of happiness. It’s your choice of what will make you happy. It’s your decision.
Just be smart about things in life! Go live.